Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Smile

Smile is one of the body language attraction. It's also the most important attraction that makes people would do business will you. Smile will bring a good first impression to others. Smile is also showing the confidence that you get. Happiness can bring people a great energy, good reviews and even a greater performance. When you are bring some happiness into the conversation, both speaker and listener would be more concentrated and have a good memory.



For having a good smile during the conversation, you don't need to learn how to have a prefer smile such as models. You just need to be yourself, having a fake smile would not help people to truth you, for this reason, you just need to smile in your own style. The second thing you can do is developing your confidence,there are nothing better than a confidence smile. Having a positive thoughts will also help a lot.

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Handshake culture

Having a handshake is a symbol of respect and amicable. When people meet each other, they will also shake each other hands and introduce themselves. However, there are some different meaning and rules in different culture.

In most Western culture, shaking a man hand is mean respect and trust. Strong and energetically handshake is mean a good handshake. If you are shaking a woman hand, you may be more tender, do not shake hard as man.

In Russia and Poland , there are some differences for the handshake culture. Sharking in a doorway is not a good thing in Russia and Poland. They will shake their hands after they get in the building.

In German, you need to be very careful about the sequence of handshake. Try to not give a handshake to a German man if he is with his wife. It will be very rude and belittling to women if we shake her husband's hand.

Different place get their unique culture, for this reason, we need to be careful and prepared when we meet different counties people.


Wednesday, May 7, 2014

The Importance of Eye Contact














Eye contact is among the most significant features of non-verbal communication. Eye contact can reinforce the communication process. In most cases, eye contact is considered a symbol of self-assurance and self-esteem. Research has shown that most people can only maintain eye contact for 30- 60 percent of the time for only 10 seconds or less. Most people avoid eye contact because of some of the misconceptions associated with maintaining eye it. Too much eye contact is usually seen as aggressiveness or a sign of sexual interest.
When people maintain eye contact, they communicate confidently. When a speaker communicates with confidence, the listeners take him more seriously, and they will believe that what he is saying is important. When speakers maintain eye contact, the message will maintain intimate thoughts and desires. Eye contact helps in building an emotional connection between the speaker and the listeners, and it also shows that the speaker has a keen interest on the issue he or she is addressing.
Eye contact, when used positively can express confidence, honesty, love, friendship, sympathy, and any other virtue that the speaker wants to express. For instance, when we want to reassure somebody, the way we use eye contact will deliver the message. Upholding eye contact with the audience shows appreciation. For instance, when people do something nice and one is showing appreciation, eye contact is vital.

Eye contact can foster understanding of the message being communicated. For instance, when the speaker is getting the point across, eye contact is important, as it will assure the speaker that the point has been put across. Eye contact enables the speaker to build trust and respect in the eyes of the listeners, which will be reciprocated. 
Some rules of eye contact:

Eye contact